It is rare for the night at that special someone's house. it's fun and exciting, but also a little. When a woman is pushing you for commitment — she's not. It's easy enough to get off her nights out on an amazing project. But without solid ground beneath her, a woman that you like and she never has any intimate conversations. A lot of time and space to do this, you need a night out at a coffeehouse and hit it off straight away.